Relationship Advice Gone Wild II
By Susan Russo How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives. -Annie Dillard By an overwhelming response we are back to facing the cold hard truths of getting over someone we love. If you can handle the truth and you want to get over it sooner rather than later, read on. No one is saying that its easy, but its a lot easier than youre making it. The fact is; its inevitable. Youre going to have to get over it anyway, so you might as well take the quick and less painful route, as opposed to trudging down Heartbreak Lane. The first reality isits a choice. I know you may find that hard to believe but once you go through the stages of healing your broken heart, depending on how long you feel the pain, is actually your choice. Without further ado, lets get started with Advice Gone Wild II. Ill never love anyone like I loved him/her. Advice: What a loss. Why would you allow yourself to believe this? Wasnt there at least one other person in your past that you thought you would never get over? And, lo and behold, you got over them, didnt you? Dont set yourself up to feel bad. Sure, you loved them, but once you get out and begin to live a little them will be a thing of the past. I cant stop thinking of him/her. Advice: Oh yes you can. You cant think of two things at the same time so start to keep yourself as busy as possible. Every time you start to think of them, STOP YOURSELF and say, Its over and everyday Im getting stronger. You have to do something that is going to help yourself in letting go. Its a matter of time when you will let go, why not just do it right now? Who am I going to meet? Ill never meet anyone. Advice: You met him/her didnt you? There are about 6 billion, yes, thats billion, people in the world and you cant meet just one? Come on, of course youre going to meet someone. Quit lying to yourself. Its not a matter of whom you will meet; its a matter of when you will meet them. When fill your head with this kind of garbage, how do you expect to feel? Whats wrong with me that they didnt love me? Nothing! The fact is, sometimes things just dont work out the way we planned. All relationships take TWO people to make it or break it. If someone chooses to leave you, for whatever reason, you simply have to face reality and pick up the pieces of your life and move on. If someone isnt on the same page as you, if they have a different agenda, then the only thing wrong with you is if you continue to hold onto something thats dead and gone. How will I ever get over this? You will get over it the same way everyone else does; one step at a time. You will get over it when you continue to take the right steps and do the right things that will help you heal your broken heart. If you tell yourself that its too hard, or you will never get over it, guess what? Youre right. What you tell yourself about any given situation is exactly how you will experience it. Unless, you choose to stay stuck, you will be over it sooner than you thinkhang in there! So when youre feeling sorry for yourself and looking for the answers, look no further. You hold the key to either moving on with your life, by doing the right things or you can throw away the key and remain a prisoner forever. Its your choice. Keep yourself focused on where you want to go, not on where you were, and before you know it, you wont need any more advice. Read more about it in the book, There Is Life After Whats-His-Name found at: http://www.whystay.com Susan Russo is an author, speaker and coach who provides inspiration, self-empowerment and the tools and strategies to help move you toward personal success and fulfillment. She is editor of “You’ve Got Power” Ezine. Author of “There Is Life After What’s-His-Name and The 7 Keys To Unlock The Power Within You found at: http://www.susanrusso.com Copyright 2007 Pinnacle Thought Inc. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Susan_Russo http://EzineArticles.com/?Relationship-Advice-Gone-Wild-II&id=470166 hilo bad credit auto finance consumer reports-credit cards uk secured loans people bad credit free credit report from trw
